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One of Them Days: A New Take on Millennial Black Womanhood—Does It Mirror Insecure?

  • Writer: Aikayla Green
    Aikayla Green
  • Feb 24
  • 2 min read



If you’ve ever been deep in your thoughts, navigating love, career, and friendships while dealing with the everyday chaos of life, chances are Insecure was your go-to show. Issa Rae gave us relatable, raw, and humorous storytelling that felt like peeking into our own group chats. Now, with the film One of Them Days making waves, many are drawing comparisons to the beloved HBO series. But does it really hold up?


If you’ve ever been deep in your thoughts, navigating love, career, and friendships while dealing with the everyday chaos of life, chances are Insecure was your go-to show. Issa Rae gave us relatable, raw, and humorous storytelling that felt like peeking into our own group chats. Now, with the film One of Them Days making waves, many are drawing comparisons to the beloved HBO series. But does it really hold up?


The Similar Vibes: A Deep Dive into Real Life & Real Struggles


Both Insecure and One of Them Days tap into the modern Black woman experience—the highs, the lows, and the “what am I even doing with my life?” moments. They explore the delicate balance between friendships, self-discovery, and trying (but not always succeeding) at adulting.

Much like Issa Dee in Insecure, One of Them Days also gives us a deeply personal perspective, showcasing moments of awkwardness, self-reflection, and the need for growth. The cinematography, soundtrack, and cultural nuances make it feel just as intimate and aesthetically engaging as Issa’s mirror raps and scenic LA walks.


Where They Differ: Is It More Than Just A Mood?

While Insecure had seasons to unfold its storylines, One of Them Days has the challenge of packing it all into a film—which means less room for slow-burn character development and deeper subplots. The question remains: Can a single movie give us the same connection and emotional investment that a full series did?


Another key difference? Insecure was heavily focused on romantic struggles, career confusion, and friendships evolving over time, whereas One of Them Days leans more into the weight of a single defining moment—which can either make it feel more impactful or leave viewers wanting more.


Final Thoughts: Is One of Them Days the New Insecure?

The film definitely echoes some of the vibes that made Insecure a cultural staple, but instead of replacing it, it feels like a new chapter in the ongoing evolution of Black storytelling. Instead of trying to be the next Insecure, One of Them Days offers a fresh but familiar take on millennial struggles, showing that we’re still here, figuring it all out—one chaotic day at a time.


What Do You Think?

Did One of Them Days give you Insecure nostalgia, or did it bring something new to the table? Drop your thoughts in the comments!


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